If you look closely, you will see that all these things—the rudeness of one, the anger of another—are exceedingly slight things which should be received with indifference. Do not allow them to trouble you so much. The one thing of supreme importance is your sadhana and your spiritual growth. Let nothing touch or disturb that.
Sri Aurobindo
SABCL,Letter on Yoga, Page 1414
Sri Aurobindo and the Mother always insist on equanimity, Samata.